This is why I'm leaving you with a bit of thinking instead:
My professor of Social Psychology explained falling in love with a formula that goes something like this:
FALLING IN LOVE = FREQUENCY OF ENCOUNTERS * PLEASANTNESS OF THEM.
I can't help but confirm it ever since. Even when it comes to Filofaxes!!!
Seriously, apply it to one of your Filofax purchases and see! Agree? :)
PS. I guess this is the key to enabling, too?